Friday, March 31, 2006

When we meet the right person to love, when we're at the right place at the right time, that's chance. When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's chance.


Being caught up in a moment (and there are a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance.


The difference is what happens afterwards. When you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.


If you decide to love a person, even with his/her faults, that's not a chance. That's a choice. When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's a choice.


Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's a choice.
Infatuation, crushes, and attraction come to us by chance.


But true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make. Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful quote that I believe is so true about this: "Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen." I believe that soulmates do exist, that there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not.


We may meet our soulmates by chance, but loving and staying with our soulmate is still a choice we have to make. We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love, But to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly.....

blackRose signed off Friday, March 31, 2006

Sunday, March 26, 2006

Hey all..


I'm back blogging after a period of absence.. I guess i'm picking up and putting all the pieces of my life together. But tis is wat i realise.. Everytime when i'm abt to finish putting them back together, i was struck hard and the pieces crumble.. And there i have to mend them back~ Life's so complicated. Especially when it comes to love..


So what is this thing called love..


Definition of love from http://www.dictionary.com/

Love (lv) n
1. A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
2. A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.
3. An intense emotional attachment, as for a pet or treasured object.
4. A person who is the object of deep or intense affection or attraction; beloved. Often used as a term of endearment


Synonyms: love, affection, devotion, fondness, infatuationThese nouns denote feelings of warm personal attachment or strong attraction to another person. Love is the most intense: marrying for love. Affection is a less ardent and more unvarying feeling of tender regard: parental affection. Devotion is earnest, affectionate dedication and implies selflessness: teachers admired for their devotion to children. Fondness is strong liking or affection: a fondness for small animals. Infatuation is foolish or extravagant attraction, often of short duration: lovers blinded to their differences by their mutual infatuation.


Haizz.. All i can denote is.. Love is blind~ It knows no boundary. And when it hits eu, it hits eu so hard that eu nvr know where it comes and suddenly.. Ur in Love..


Aside of all that, i considered my heart feels nothing for love & no had feeling to love anyone else. But recently.. unexpectedly, sumone came into my life and manage, somehow, to open up my heart which i consider it to be 'DEAD' all tis while. Mayb its juz a fling? To me.. I can like a person, but to love a person.. It take some time for me.. Mayb tads y i'm still alone~ Perhaps i'm not ready for another relationship.


If onli i cud have the person that opens up heart to love again.. I'll be the most happiest person in tis world. Well, tad is if.. If onli..


A close fren of mine use to say.. Some ppl comes into ur life for a reason.. They come to assists u when ur in difficulty, either by physically,emotionally or spiritually.. They are there for the reasons u need them. Then w/o any wrong doing on ur part or at any inconvinient time, tad person will say or do someting tad will bring the relationship to the end. At times they walked away or act up or out or force u to make a stand. But of all, what u have to realise is that, our need had been met, our desired fullfilled, and their work is done. Now is the time to move on.
I dun wish tat person to walked away after all they have done to me. Walking away will bring me back to my old self and i do not wish it to repeat time and again. It's heart breaking..



Well, if u shud walk away from me, i'll wait for u till the end of time for ur return. If u comes back, no doubt we're meant for each other..



Well, enuf said for the dae.. I'm leaving eu guys wif this beautiful note i found on the net..

blackRose signed off Sunday, March 26, 2006

Saturday, March 04, 2006

Haloo..

Wah.. Cant believe its Saturdae again.. Damn fast man.. Wakaka.. Ands its been 1 month since i start working.. =P Hip.. hip.. Hooray!! Behind all tad happiness, am still worried coz me waiting for the skool to give a reply of my acceptance. Haizz.. Dunno if can get it or not~

me @ worK!!

Juz wondering.. Wat i'm doing @ home on a saturday.. =P Was tinking of going out.. But Haha.. Guess all r bz wif their life.. I tink i gonna catch my afternoon nap first.. =P Heeh


Ah Ben.. Ah Ben,
Haha.. Finalli going to turn 18 soon ar.. Lol~ See eU @ werk.. =P

SulaiMan,
Reservist eh.. Dun worry la.. Time flies very fast.. My turn will come oso but dunno when. Lol~ Enjoy the wk leave and have fun in reservist ya~ Gonna miss u @ werk.. =P

blackRose signed off Saturday, March 04, 2006